I don’t know where you went when you died
I’d like to know. I like to think you’re better now

I think of the stillness there
the hum of distant highways
the silent falling snow, swarms of gnats
hanging dense in humid summers

all your beloveds laid the past beside you,
stooping to pick up shards of suffering left behind
their first step into a violent birth of ‘after’

if—listen: there’s a hell

there’s a bluebird in my heart that wants to get out
but i pour whiskey on him; each man’s death
diminishes me. Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
his lips are pale and still; My father does not feel my arm,
he has no pulse or will

I have not winced nor cried aloud –
The caged bird sings with a fearful trill
– My head is bloody, but unbowed
of things unknown but longed for still

May the road rise up to meet you; I am not
there, I do not sleep
I do not sleep I do not sleep
I do not sleep…i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)

rage against the dying
of the light: Life means all that it ever meant.
it is the same as it ever was;
there is absolute and unbroken
continuity – and oh, my friends
it gives a lovely light!
it’s nice enough to
make a man
weep, but i don’t
weep, do

‘why did you do that?’

a girl I used to know told her boyfriend
‘if you don’t propose we’re breaking up’
they got married last month

I feel so disconnected

I want to find love without dressing it in white
and losing forty thousand dollars on trinkets and tablecloths
I want to keep that love away from boring dinner parties
where all the couples smile and nod
off, and no one, absolutely no one else is hungover
and hiding bloody elbows from falling into a ditch

I haven’t done that in a while,
by the way

above: me vs ditch, circa 2012

love, terribly

love knocked on my door once
then let itself right in
it dirtied the dishes and opened the blinds
never caring if it kept me up all night
or if it shook me awake in the morning.
it talked through movies (that I never
got to pick), left the trash overflowing
with tissues and was either late coming home
or never showed up at all

and then one day, it left without even saying goodbye

get a dog

whenever i mention my dog, people get this urge
to explain why they don’t have a dog, too
like i’m the dog police

i’m too busy
i don’t like walking
i won’t have time til i retire
i golf with my husband every weekend
we have white carpets

they need a dog owner to confirm that their life circumstances
are just too complicated for a shedding source
of unconditional love

I just nod anyways cos i’m not
getting into an argument
with themselves


yesterday she said
‘I told the girls I have a Brazilian down there
– but not by choice.
chemo is a great way to lose your body hair
and it only takes two weeks!’
our laughter boomed into the hallway

today, she was unresponsive
13 people rushed into her room as her husband
was rushed out
his love creased face crumbled to the ground
his pain echoing down the hallway